324: How to rekindle your desire when pleasure feels like work and intimacy feels like a chore

Join us for EMBER: 4 weeks to rekindle your sensual fire here:

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If intimacy feels like another chore on your to-do list, it's not because you've lost desire—it's because your body is stuck in survival mode, making pleasure feel inaccessible. 

 

In this episode, we're unpacking why stress, depletion, and over-responsibility shut down your sensuality and how to rewire your nervous system so pleasure stops feeling like work and starts feeling natural. 

 

If you're ready to shift intimacy from an obligation into a source of energy, joy, and deep connection, this episode is for you.

What you'll get from this episode:

•  The real reason intimacy feels like a chore (and it's not what you think)

• How chronic stress rewires your body to resist pleasure—and how to undo it

• The secret to making pleasure effortless instead of another thing on your to-do list

• How to build your body's capacity for sensation so intimacy feels nourishing, not overwhelming

 

About EMBER: 4 weeks to rekindle your sensual fire:

 

Ember is for you if:

• Stress and exhaustion kill your mood, making intimacy feel like just another thing on your to-do list.

• You feel disconnected from yourself or your partner, like something is missing but you don't know how to get it back.

• You're unsure of what you even want—in the bedroom or in life.

• You live from the neck up, stuck in your head, and no amount of meditation has helped you drop in.

• You feel numb during sex, experience pain, or dissociate—even if your desire is high.

 

What you'll get inside of Ember:

• 4 weeks of live, interactive coaching & Q&A

• Scientifically backed homeplay practices that melt stress, get you out of your head, and reconnect you with your body.

• Taoist & Tantric techniques to awaken your sensual energy and deepen your love for your body.

• Tools to build emotional courage so you can rekindle passion and connection with your partner.

• Clarity & confidence in your deepest desires so you can fully claim and manifest them—both inside and outside the bedroom.

 

What you'll walk away with after Ember:

• Less stress, more ease. You'll have simple, body-based tools to release tension and shift into pleasure, even on the busiest days.

• The ability to turn off your racing mind and drop into the present moment—whether in intimacy or just enjoying life more fully.

• A reignited fire within