
ADHD & Autism: Why Chores Are So Hard and How To Teach Chores in a Way That Actually Works:)
Why do chores turn into power struggles in so many ADHD and autistic families?
It's not laziness. It's not defiance. And it's definitely not a character flaw.
In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Holly Blanc Moses sits down with adolescent psychologist Dr. Cam Caswell to unpack why chores feel like a nightmare for neurodivergent kids and teens.
If you're parenting a child with ADHD or autism and struggling with:
This conversation will change how you see chores forever.
You'll learn:
✔ Why chasing compliance actually builds resentment ✔ The difference between responsibility and obedience ✔ How executive functioning impacts task initiation ✔ Why chores are an adult priority (not a teen priority) ✔ How to teach life skills without shame ✔ A neurodiversity-affirming approach to building ownership ✔ How to reduce conflict while increasing competence
This episode is essential listening for:
If you want to raise responsible, confident kids without damaging connection — this episode is for you!
Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses, The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist
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