He's perfect but his family is bleeding him dry

A 29-year-old writes in about the man she loves, the daughter they share, and the family quietly bleeding him dry. He's stable, he's kind, he's husband material. His parents, on both sides, treat him like a personal cashpoint — and when she gently suggested he stop, they disowned him, called her the problem, and called their baby something much worse. Now there's a grandmother in ICU and the pressure is back on.

Caroline and Daryl get into why "supportive" can quietly turn into "exploited," what actual boundaries look like when a whole family is invested in not having them, and the hard limits she needs to set before she signs a marriage certificate. Plus a tangent about wedding chaos, divorce parties, and the time someone's paperwork went absolutely sideways.

Should she marry him? Listen and find out.

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Timestamps:

• 00:00 — Therapist voices, Andrew Tate, and a blood orange tangent
• 05:00 — The letter
• 23:46 — The advice: boundaries, hard limits, and one big decision
• 31:29 — Wedding stories and divorce party chaos
• 41:49 — Final advice and resources
• 48:15 — Outro

Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208