10 Things That Make a Man Great at Sex (According to Women and Science)

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Every woman has one: the lover she still thinks about. The way he kissed her, the way he took his time, the way he looked at her like she was the only thing in the room. She’s probably never going to tell you what he actually did differently, so I will.

I asked women what the best lover they ever had actually did, then I checked their answers against the research, and they lined up almost every time. This is the real list, and not one thing on it is about size, lasting forever, or some move you saw in porn at 2 a.m. Every single one is a skill, which means any man can learn it.

In this episode:

• Why the best lovers aren’t in a hurry (and what the research says about how long sex should actually last)
• Why she remembers the kiss more than anything else
• The “dirty mouth” skill, voice, sound, and words
• Why great sex starts at 2 p.m., not 10 p.m.
• The difference between a man who performs and a man who can’t get enough of her
• How scent, grooming, and yes, your sheets, make or break the night
• How to ask about her fantasies without flinching, then lead
• Why laughing in bed makes her come easier
• The listening skill that turns into desire
• And the one thing that makes all of it possible: safety

Ladies, if you’re nodding the whole way through, send this to the special guy in your life so he’s not shooting in the dark. Fellas, pick one thing, learn it, and try it tonight.

Want the full written guide with all the research and every move spelled out? Read it on my website: 🔥 https://talksexwithannette.com/

Episodes mentioned in this one (go deeper):

• 🔥 Praise Kink → https://youtu.be/4H80yuO93FQ
• 🔥 Edging →https://talksexwithannette.com/reviews/sex-toys/vibrators/hello-nancy-berri-review/
• 🔥 5 Ways to Dominate Her → https://youtu.be/srzHzTgkIxI
• 🔥 5 Spanking Fantasies She Has → https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/how-to-spank-her/

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