New Mom Updates + How to Create Meaningful Gatherings With Friends

Ep 258: In this new intro, Allison reflects on the holidays and what this season has been like as a brand-new mom. She opens up about creating family traditions, the emotional side of bonding with her baby Hayes, and what breastfeeding and early motherhood have really been like for her.

Starting at the 10-minute mark, this episode transitions into a replay of Episode 221 (originally aired April 9, 2025), while Allison and Ceara are off for the holidays.

Allison and Ceara also catch up and talk about creative ways to bring people together — from being a thoughtful host or guest to planning meaningful, budget-friendly gatherings that feel special without being stressful. We share favorite events we’ve hosted, loved, or are dreaming up for the future, along with simple touches that make people feel cared for.

TAKEAWAYS:

• It's important to consider the purpose of a gathering.
• Establishing a theme can enhance the experience.
• Guest dynamics matter, especially in smaller groups.
• Low-key hangouts can be just as meaningful as planned events.
• Bringing a thoughtful gift shows appreciation to the host.
• Offering to bring something can help the host.
• Fresh bread or gourmet treats are great gift ideas.
• Helping clean up shows appreciation for the host.
• Communication about arrival times is crucial.
• Hosts should greet guests and provide guidance.
• Setting expectations can ease social anxiety.
• Having a clear end time can help manage gatherings.

RELATED EPISODES:

Ep 61: How To Plan A Trip: Choosing A Destination, Finding Hidden Gems, and More

Ep 102: Hobbies: Why They’re Important, Our Favorite Hobbies and Ideas to Try

Ep 129: How to Make (and Maintain) Friendships

Ep 130: Finding Aligned Friends and Activities To Do Together

Ep 135: Navigating Friendship Growing Pains and Moving Forward Together

Ep 136: Is It Time To Close A Friendship Chapter (WWYBD?!)

MENTIONS:

Allison’s Yoga Mat - Oko Living (Code ‘allisonwetig’ 10% off)

@Talliia on TikTok Movie Night 

Our Favorite Chocolates: Hu Kitchen

Allison Post on Lemon 8 of “Fun Holidays“