
If you've ever felt like things in the saddle are either happening at 100km/h with you just hanging on, or your horse feels like the handbrake will not release no matter how you ask... This episode is for you!
Today, we're diving into the uncomfortable truth that keeps so many riders stuck: not being willing to slow down in order to go faster later. We're stripping everything back to the foundational communication between you and your horse, the mindset of forwardness, and rebuilding from the beginning in a way that actually works.
Whether your horse feels like a rocket with a mind of its own… Or like they need a push and a prayer just to enter the arena; this episode will help you understand what's really going on, and what needs to happen next.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why "forward" has nothing to do with speed and everything to do with mindset
The biggest communication gap that causes both rushing and slugging
How groundwork becomes the key to changing your horse's willingness under saddle
Why walk–halt transitions are the most underrated power tool in your riding
How to know when you're ready to move on to trot and finally canter
The 12-week framework that will rebuild responsiveness, confidence and connection
You don't need a different horse, you don't need to ride more. You just need to start at the beginning again, with the basics done correctly this time.
Let's dig in… https://stridesforsuccess.com/episode1386-what-youre-not-willing-to-do-in-order-to-improve-your-riding/
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