In September 1983, Tami Oldham and her fiancé, Richard Sharp, set sail from Tahiti on what should have been a routine yacht delivery to San Diego. Weeks later, a hurricane they could not outrun found them in the open Pacific. Tami woke up injured, aboard a boat that barely resembled the one she had boarded, with one question that could not wait: where was Richard? What followed took more than a month, a navigation tool most of us have never used, and a decision at the very end that could have cost her everything. Julie and Kaycee tell the story and explain what a head injury like hers can meanContent note: This episode includes the death of a loved one, a serious head injury, and a brief mention of suicidal thoughts. In the United States, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available by call or text.Time Stamps - 00:00 Podcast Intro 00:30 Waking Up After Capsize01:56 Content Warning 03:01 Tahiti Departure And Crew04:54 Hurricane Raymond Forms08:44 Inside The Storm11:15 Richard Missing Aftermath13:02 Radios Fail Survival Plan15:44 Improvised Mast And Course17:36 Celestial Navigation Without Time22:35 Daily Routine Food Water Wounds25:07 Close Calls And Steering Trouble27:02 Third Man Factor 28:51 Land Signs 31:37 Hilo Harbor And Rescue34:17 Recovery And Life After35:27 Legacy And ClosingKey References
- United Press International, "A woman who spent 41 days alone in a..." (November 22, 1983).
- Lou Bodenhemier, "A Survival Classic: Tami Oldham Ashcraft's 41 Days Alone at Sea," ExplorersWeb (May 20, 2025).
- Wikipedia, "Tami Oldham Ashcraft."
- Wikipedia, "1983 Pacific hurricane season," Hurricane Raymond section.
- "Adrift: Surviving a hurricane at sea," interview with Tami Oldham Ashcraft, RNLI magazine (April 4, 2019).
- Media kit for Red Sky in Mourning, Foggia+Associates Public Relations (about 2002).7
- Kara Warner, "41 Days Stranded at Sea: The Harrowing, Heartbreaking Real-Life Story Behind New Movie 'Adrift,'" People (June 1, 2018).
- Tim Schmit, "'Adrift' 1983 Hurricane (Raymond)," CIMSS Satellite Blog, University of Wisconsin-Madison (October 12, 2021).
- Defense Health Agency, "Traumatic Brain Injury" (VA/DoD severity classification).
- "Guardian Angels Or The 'Third Man Factor'?" NPR (September 13, 2009).
- "Shackleton's Fourth Man," National Catholic Register.
- Review of Red Sky in Mourning, Kirkus Reviews.
- New Idea interview with Tami Oldham Ashcraft (August 27, 2018).14. 'Adrift' | Local author's book hits big screen," San Juan Journal.
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