In this episode, host Etienne Nichols sits down with Lesley Worthington, an executive coach with a background in psychology, law, and over 20 years in quality and regulatory affairs. They explore the critical, yet often overlooked, role of communication in building a robust culture of quality. Lesley explains that while quality professionals possess deep technical knowledge, they often struggle to be heard because they focus on being clear and correct rather than on making others feel understood. This conversation delves into why traditional training methods fall short and how a shift in mindset can lead to better relationships and greater influence.
Lesley highlights that true influence and buy-in don’t come from simply explaining things well, but from actively listening and making others feel heard. The discussion touches on common pitfalls, such as using excessive jargon, over-explaining, and failing to understand the listener's perspective. Lesley emphasizes the importance of building trust and psychological safety, which allows for open communication and the ability to ask clarifying questions without fear. She shares practical strategies, like paraphrasing to confirm understanding and moving from a "broadcast" mindset to one of curious listening.
The conversation concludes with a look at the limits of traditional training, which often focuses on information over action and fails to address personal habits and emotional intelligence. Lesley describes how her coaching practice provides a personalized space for professionals to think through their specific challenges and discover their own solutions. She advocates for simple, plain language and encourages a shift from fear-based interactions to curiosity-driven ones, underscoring that the core of effective communication is a human-centric approach.