From an Eight-Hour First Date to Fatherhood: George & Mike of Families Out Loud on Egg Donation, Surrogacy, and Navigating the NICU

What happens when two guys meet, talk for eight hours straight on their first night together, fall in love, and decide to build the family they've always dreamed of? Well, it's quite the story. And this week, Ali is getting all of it.

Ali is joined by George and Mike, husbands, dads, and the founders of Families Out Loud, a nonprofit family-building community and traveling conference dedicated to making the path to parenthood through assisted reproduction safer, more understood, and a whole lot less lonely. And not just for LGBTQ+ families, but for every family, and every route to parenthood.

George and Mike take us all the way back to the beginning: their instant connection, their shared dreams of becoming dads, and the twists, turns, decisions, and emotions that came with making those dreams a reality.

We get into ALL of it, including:

• How they knew they wanted to become parents
• Navigating the world of egg donation and choosing their donor
• Finding the right surrogate to help grow their family
• Their decision to do a double embryo transfer
• The emotional roller coaster of pregnancy and parenthood through surrogacy
• Their experience inside the NICU
• How their personal journey inspired them to create Families Out Loud
• Why education, advocacy, and community are so critical for ALL intended parents

This convo is equal parts funny, emotional, eye-opening, and inspiring. George and Mike are incredibly candid about what it took to become dads, what they learned along the way, and why they're now so passionate about helping other families navigate their own journeys. Because there is no one-size-fits-all way to make a family. And every single one of those stories deserves to be told, celebrated, and supported.

Learn more about Families Out Loud: familiesoutloud.org

IG: @families_out_loud

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