The Mother of All Decisions: Betsy Armstrong on Grief, Growth, and Midlife Motherhood

“It took me 12 years to write it and get it to a publisher… writing a book was a lot harder than an Ironman.” In this heartfelt episode of Uncorking a Story, I sit down with Betsy Armstrong—writer, mom, athlete, and philanthropist—to explore the winding path that led her to authorship. From losing her mother at 23, to navigating midlife, infertility, and ultimately adopting two children from Russia, Betsy’s story is one of resilience, reinvention, and radical love. Her memoir, The Mother of All Decisions, dives into the legacy of mother loss and the power of choosing motherhood in her late 40s. Whether you’re grieving, writing your way through pain, or redefining your life at midlife, this conversation will move and motivate you. Key Takeaways: Grief can be a catalyst for personal transformation—if we’re brave enough to face it. Writing is not just creative expression; it’s a powerful tool for healing. Adopting at midlife brought unexpected challenges—and immeasurable joy. It’s never too late to become the person you’re meant to be. Even careers that don’t seem “creative” (like nonprofit work or sales) can build skills for storytelling. Memoir writing takes time, support, and revision—it really does take a village. You don’t need to have all the answers to begin writing—just a willingness to be honest. Buy The Mother of All Decisions: A Memoir of Mother Loss, Legacy, and Adopting Kids in Midlife. Amazon: https://amzn.to/3UtmElV Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781647428938 Connect with Betsy Website: https://www.betsyarmstrong.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wordsbybetsy/ Facebook: Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you liked this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. #UncorkingAStory #BetsyArmstrong #MotherLoss #MemoirWriting #MidlifeMotherhood #GriefToGrowth #WritersOfInstagram #AdoptionStory #CreativeHealing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices