Understanding SSSA: Same-Sex Sexual Attraction

In this powerful teaching from the Same-Sex Connection Conference, Drew Boa breaks down the difference between SSA, SSSA, and sexualized attachment. You'll learn the 4 P's of attraction (preference, pleasure, pull, and power), the 5 types of intimacy, and why unmet attachment needs often get sexualized. This episode provides practical vocabulary and clarifies the truth that same-sex attraction is meant to lead you into healthy same-sex connection.

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Mentioned in this episode:

Healing & Recovery: Perspective For Young Men with Sexualized Attachments by Dr. Floyd Godfrey

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